To the Original Poster........

1. Where are you located? Perhaps there is someone in your area you could meet up with for some honing demonstration/guidance?

2. Frankly, you should start with a 1000 grit wet/dry sandpaper, used wet, to start that bevel. 50-100 roundtrip laps should do it. Then move on to the BBW if you wish.

PM with contact info sent.