I agree with all those who have suggested to get sample packs and see what she likes, but you've definitely got to like it yourself. The problem I've found is that every company doesn't have samples and those who resell sample packs don't carry everything. So, I've just decided to use neutral scents that smell "clean" and use an aftershave/cologne which is something much easier to find samples of. I use Mitchell's Wool Fat, which unless you like dirty clothes smell then you'll love it and its not persistent... D.R. Harris Windsor shaving soap is similarly mild scented and doesn't last long or interfere with an aftershave or cologne.