Originally Posted by
gugi
I wasn't but I could still address your concerns
The founding fathers did not believe in every "person being able to decide for themselves what say they have about living their life as they see fit". Some of them did, some of them didn't hence they compromised approximately half-way for money and electoral purposes to count slaves as 60% of non-slaves. Some slave-owning founding fathers made pretty good money off the freedom of other human beings which they considered as property - obviously they could've freed those slaves and hired them as paid workers if they thought it's the right or the more profitable way to go, but they didn't.
Your problem is not with the amount of money you pay in taxes - it is with how that money is being spent, and yes you have very little control over it. Why am I saying this - because you are making a big issue of being forced to pay for somebody's health insurance while you don't seem to mind nearly as much being forced to pay for somebody's really expensive health care. Or you don't make a big deal of being forced to pay for what in this country is called 'defense'. You also don't make a big deal of subsidized mortgages, education, or child rearing.
So, that's just the usual politics - everybody wants to keep the stuff they like and discard the stuff they do not like.
Since you posted your income, take a look at the tax distribution - you are at about break-even point where you get more than what you pay in taxes, a little bit below, i.e. you get a bit more than you pay for. You also live in a moocher state - i.e. your state gets more from the rest of the country than it pays in taxes. I live in NY and we pay more in federal taxes than we get back.
If you are really serious about the federal government being too big - may be elect local politicians who will run your state with the resources you have without taking from the rest of us. I keep hearing complaints about big government and how hard it is to run a business and people mean the federal government, yet when they give me specific problems the big costs and red tape are almost always from the local government.
The truth is that there are things that are better done by a government, and there are things that are better done by free market. The smart thing is to figure out which is which or when a mixture of both is appropriate and do that. Everything else is blind ideology.