Thread: Are all Women Crazy?

Let's look at this from a different angle.

Since the first time I posted on the internet (15 years ago) I followed the rule that I would never post anything, anywhere, that I would not want my mother, wife, daughter, boss, customer, government official or lawyer to read.

So let's look at the different options

mother
Son, I can't believe you wrote those things about your gf for all to read. Didn't I raise you any better.Shame on you.

GF
OMG I can't believe you wrote those things. I hate you. Here are the remains of your razors, I slashed the tyres of your harley, and I used your katana to poke the fireplace.

Kid
Daddy. Why did you write those things about mommy. Other kids are making fun of me because they say I have a crazy mom

Boss
We've gotten complaints from some women's organization about some things you wrote on the internet. You are a public face of our company, and women are our primary focus group. We can't risk a boycott of our product. I'm sorry but I have to let you go.

Customer
We've been informed by our PR department that we are no longer to do any business with your company, because it could lead to bad publicity which we really can't use atm.

Gov
(can't think of one)

Lawyer
Members of the jury, the defendant will try to convince you that the death of his gf was just a freak accident, but I will show you evidence that he hated his gf, thought she was stupid, and that he wanted to get rid of her.

Lawyer
Your honor, that man made public remarks that put my client in a significant emotional distress. We seek compensation in the amount of xxxxxx$ for that.

I could go on like this for some more, but I think my point is obvious.
The original post could hve been made in a manner that would convey the same information, but without opening up the OP to the scenarios mentioned above (and without being disrespectful).

They say that what happens in vegas stays in vegas.
But what happens n the internet stays on the internet. FOREVER.

Originally Posted by Bruno

The original post could hve been made in a manner that would convey the same information, but without opening up the OP to the scenarios mentioned above (and without being disrespectful).

It could???

God, I love controversy, isn't it great!

Been married for eleven years now to the same woman and I have one word of advice "cope". Find a way to cope with her madness, all women will appear nuts in a man's eyes but cope with it. Find a way to deal with the madness. Perhaps if she is the vindictive type keep all of the things that you want to remain in a safe. If she throws things at a particular time of the month arange to be on travel those few days.

Originally Posted by zib

God, I love controversy, isn't it great!

Then it sounds as if you found the right girl!

Originally Posted by Slick Rick

You youngsters are just starting to learn, PMS is only the prelude to the real fun; wait until your little lady starts menopause. Ya Gotta Love Em.

+1 this will seperate the amatuers from the veterans!

OK, I can't take the time at work today to go through all 5 pages, so I'll post after reading 2, and ask forgiveness if the points I make have already been made...

1st: Dude, bail on her. Seriously. If it's as bad as you describe and you have nothing in common, get out. It's so much better to live in peace by yourself than to live in discord. If she's not wife material for you she's not worth the emotional investment, and having easy access to genitalia isn't a good enough excuse (in my book) to ameliorate all the negative that comes with it.

2nd: If she IS someone you want to be with, keep things in perspective. If the good outweighs the bad, that's probably why you want to be with her, so remember during the bad that the good is better. There are times I think my wife is crazier than a **** fight in a monkey house, but there are times that she thinks I'm the same way. And sometimes it's my fault she gets like that, too. BUT, after 17 years of marriage, I wouldn't trade her for any woman or any thing you could put in front of me. I married far above my station and the good is most assuredly greater than the bad. And as time goes on, I've noticed the trend is for it to get better.

3rd: One time when my wife and I were in it pretty hard and I was just really, really, really tired of putting up with it and really, really, really tired of asking her what was wrong and hearing "I don't know" (which sounds like a petulant excuse to my ears instead of a real explanation) I left for a couple of hours, came back, sat down and said that I wasn't going to blame or to judge or anything, but that I couldn't take it anymore. What is wrong and what do you want me to do, if anything? The answer was that sometimes she really doesn't know why, she just knows that she's damn angry or upset. When she gets like that, all she wants is for me to be next to her. Don't talk, don't touch, just be close and available. Simple solution for me, yeah? So what the ladies have said here is really true in my experience. And again, if it's really that bad, just bail. You're not doing yourself or her any favors by sticking around if you're not committed to it going all the way. Neither is she.

Originally Posted by nun2sharp

+1 this will seperate the amatuers from the veterans!

Oh, LORD. Menopause.... Yeah, not fun at all. We're in the middle of it now, and I'm glad it only happens once a life.

Originally Posted by JMS

You are 46 and you started this thread? wow

yeah, I was happily married for 20 years. We divorced, mutually. She's a good woman, we just drifed apart. I've been in two relationships since, and I've seen sides of Women I've only read about.
I've been lucky.

All People are crazy! Men, Women, children...maybe not children. After all we men do things that are down right stupid...for fun.

Take for example Motorcycles. I love Bikes. Any bike will do for me. A nice clear day on an empty road. pure heaven...and I love to ride with no helmet...safe? no. smart? Def not. But I love to do it (no longer sadly)

My other joy comes from jumping in water that I'm sure holds sharks, dragging freshly killed fish a mere 20 feet behind me. Once again just a bit crazy.

But my other half puts up with me...only explanation that I can think of is that she must be a little crazy too!