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02-04-2009, 07:11 PM #61
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02-04-2009, 07:29 PM #62
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02-04-2009, 07:31 PM #63
I specifically said it wasn't always that way and that I was only speaking out of my own experience. So it's hardly a generalization. It's purely anecdotal, and I presented it that way. Your link is also merely anecdotal.
You accuse me of "suggesting that veterans are not able to be creative." This is a straw man. I merely said that in my field, I had noticed a trend. I also speculated that military training regimens would have been personally detrimental to me. I agree that if I had said all veterans were incapable of creativity, my position would be offensive and, coincidentally, easier to attack. But, that's not what I said, thus... straw man.
You are entitled to your opinion, as I am entitled to mine. We have each formed our positions based on life experiences that have clearly been very different. I did not call your position "shallow" or "nonsense," please extend me the same courtesy.
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02-04-2009, 07:32 PM #64
You're absolutely right, Brad. They don't know a damned thing. I'm totally with you on this one. I totally think that the mothers of our small children should go enlist and have a clue about service for the country. You must have extremely high blood pressure if you drive around town getting that angry every time you see a soccer mom.
I want my wife to be a "kept" woman. She's a nurse right now, but when I graduate, I want to be able to provide all the support my family needs. I'm not into wasting gas, but we will need to have a decent size vehicle. A minivan would be good. We want at LEAST three kids, maybe up to five or more though. That would make us need a seven passenger car to haul around our family with. I want her to be there when they go to school, and when they got off the bus.
Too many kids today grow up without a good family environment, and I don't want my family to be part of that statistic. What's wrong with a woman carrying the kids to piano lessons and little league while the husband is at work? For me, that's my DREAM!! I can't wait for that day.
As a matter of fact, it sounds kind of like the AMERICAN DREAM to me. And for some reason you're all up in arms saying "F them". Weren't you fighting to protect families like that?
I don't know if you have kids. I know you have Basil (an awesome dog btw), but I'm not sure if you have kids. When I look down at my daughter, Hailey, I want her to be taken care of until the day she wants to be independent. If my wife is a soccer mom one day, then I'll be perfectly happy about that. Give me a two car garage, a big backyard, happy wife and kids. That's all I need, and all I want.
It sounds like you are getting pretty upset about all this, so I'll recuse myself from posting anymore in this thread. Sorry if I ticked ya off. Hope we can still be friends.Last edited by Ben325e; 02-04-2009 at 07:47 PM.
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02-04-2009, 08:26 PM #65
WOW...
What did I do to deserve this?
I did not say that I think some people are better than others. But shoving EVERYBODY into the military for 4 years is not a good idea, just as forcing them in college for 4 years, of forcing everybody to play american football or whatever.
I don't say some people are better than others, and I don't say military people are 'less' than others.
And about Belgiums defenses: seriously: what are we protecting from?
The only thing a traditional army is good for is fighting a ground war. And the chances of that happening are slim to none.
In other conflicts, you want to use professional soldiers because they are trained for it.
And our army currently has barely enough money to pay and support the professional soldiers. Adding a couple hundred thousand draft soldiers wil break the bank. And to what end?
And it is a pretty low shot to throw Africa in my face.
Yes, our butcher king Leopold the second is second only to Stalin, and makes Hitler look like an amateur.
This happened 100 years ago. Is this my fault? Is this the fault of anyone still alive?
Do I blame you for what went on in Abu Ghraib because you were in the military?
Do I blame you for propping up Saddam Hussein, all those years ago?
Do I blame you for Iran Contra?
No I don't, because it is not your f*ing fault!
And I never said I didn't care about my country's defenses!
I just don't think that adding 100000 draftees will help Belgium, nor the draftees, especially since no everybody is a good match for the military. And I understand that in an emergency, this is of no importance. But for the things Belgium is involved in, our professional army suffices.
However, if you insist on jumping to wild conclusions about me that are not true, based on things I didn't say, insulting me in the process... then I guess we are done talking. Have a nice life.Til shade is gone, til water is gone, Into the shadow with teeth bared, screaming defiance with the last breath.
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02-04-2009, 08:35 PM #66
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Thanked: 586No Ben. I'm not upset at all and I apologize if I came across that way. What I am is puzzled why this thread has, like so many others run so far afield. It's okay though.
I live in the wealthiest county in the country and there are so many people here who run around in the Range Rovers and Hummers with such a strong sense of entitlement that it is painful. One day a woman pulled out of a banquet hall in her BMW 700 series and broadsided me in my Dodge Omni. She was very drunk and kept shouting , "I don't know what you're upset about, my car is worth alot more than yours." It is people like this that have no idea what sacrifice is and the placement of a Support Our Troops magnet on her bumper is for her absolution.
I happen to have overheard a conversation while putting my sculptures back into my car after an art show in Greenwich where one woman saw the magnet on her friend's car. She said, "Where did you find that ribbon sticker?"
The other woman looked at her car and replied, "What? Oh that. I have no idea where that came from. Casey must have put it there. She always has some pet project or another."
And Ben, no I don't have any children of my own. I raised my first wife's two daughters from the time they were one and three until they were thirteen and sixteen. My wife drugged me on Easter Sunday, stole everything we owned and ran away with the girls. The older one reaches out to me in very clever ways every now and then semingly just to let me know she is okay. One day she called my office and thanked me for teaching her to love art because she was graduating from UConn and getting a job at an art museum in Charleston, SC. I broke down and cried like a baby.
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02-04-2009, 08:41 PM #67
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02-04-2009, 08:55 PM #68
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Thanked: 586I said nothing to insult you personally and if you think I did it was certainly unintentional. This thread was originated to discuss stickers on cars in the USA. You made statements that are easily construed as offensive to anyone who has serverd in the U.S. Military. Okay fine I threw in some cheap shots at the Belgian army but I was playing. In this country we depend on an all volunteer military to defend us and anyone else the UN sees fit to involve us with. The question of leadership aside, it is an unfortunate reality that the military is not populated with the sons and daughters of society's upper crust. The children of the lawmakers and war starters are not the ones facing the enemy. Your statements regarding the interruption of studies are very short sighted. Not all of us have the option to even begin higher education and enlisting in the military is often the only option for advancement. It is painful to listen to elitist statements. No Bruno, I certainly meant no offense but I was hurt by your comments. If you feel that is a reason to be "done talking" then so be it. I suppose you have nothing to gain by associating with me anyway. Personally I'd rather it wasn't that way.
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02-04-2009, 08:58 PM #69
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Thanked: 586YYes thanks see this thread: http://straightrazorpalace.com/conve...ts-center.html
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02-04-2009, 09:05 PM #70
straw man
(thanks to xman for giving me the link back in the day. helpful stuff.)
Your opinion does have value. To you. My opinion has value to me. Some people may choose to arbitrarily assign value to either based on their own beliefs and experiences. The ground rules of the game we play dictates that the goal is to convince others that our position is the best, and thus they should attribute value to it. Most valued position at the end of the game wins, or so the game is usually played. The prize we are all competing for is to be the sad little king of a sad little virtual hill somewhere in the internet, for a day.
yes, this is satire.