Thread: im not a regular poster on here but i wanted to share

On Friday 28th of January my youngest son,Tyler, ages just 19yrs decided to end his life and did so around 8:30 - 10:30 am that day. I had given all my love in the world as father could ever give, as did his mum, brother and sisters, some times you need to share your thoughts with total strangers as it really helps so i put words my thoughts on here today.
I know no-one here has ever met me or any of my family but i do guess that many of you have very close family and i would ask that you give them a hug and a kiss whenever you feel like it time can be so short with loved ones.

I remember to good days like they were yesterday, when he was a little boy running around as naked as the day he was born.

I dont expect messages of sympathy but of joy that i had him for so long and loved him so much.

ian

I am very sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry to hear this Ian.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at what must be a very difficult time.

-Rob

I am very sorry for your loss.

I sincerely hope you and your family are able to find comfort in each other and the memories of your beloved son.

thank you every kind word means a lot to me
ian

I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that you are surely feeling right now. As you said, hang on to the joy that your son brought you.

terribly sorry to hear this, ian!

Originally Posted by ianp1966

many of you have very close family and i would ask that you give them a hug and a kiss whenever you feel like it time can be so short with loved ones.

thanks for sharing and for bringing something positive in the life of others.

I offer my sincere condolences.

from one who has also lost in this vain i wish you all the strength and fortitude i can possibly express. My condolensense to you and your family.

I have lost people close to me to suicide, and I have had others who tried and survived. I've been close myself.

Please remember, whatever made this happen, whatever cancerous despair in his heart or toxic imbalance in his brain, it was no one's fault--not his, not yours, no one--and he's free from it now. The joy that you shared is the real legacy of his life, and nothing can destroy it.