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    I know that this might sound funny, but is it possible to be overly-thanky? For example: If you thank someone for a useful post and then in turn ask a question or illicit some response, to which, the same person replies; should they be thanked again? Is there a limit to the number of times that you should be thanking a single person within the same thread? Or, should every bit of useful information be recognized? I don't want to seem ungrateful, but I don't want the sheer number of my thanks to come across as insincere either. THANKS.
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    There are no rules, official or otherwise, so I believe you can thank or not thank as much or as little as you want or don't want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Utopian View Post
    There are no rules, official or otherwise, so I believe you can thank or not thank as much or as little as you want or don't want.
    Yeah,that's the best answer.
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    Is there a way to see what posts that people thanked you for? Not that I am raking up the thanks but would like to know what I said that people found worthwhile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saf View Post
    Is there a way to see what posts that people thanked you for? Not that I am raking up the thanks but would like to know what I said that people found worthwhile.

    Yes, go to your user public profile, click on the statistics tab, and then view "all thanked posts".

    In my case, to go back to the original question, I don't usually hand out a lot of thanks - only to those posts that I find are particularly helpful, insightful, or brave (calling a spade a spade so to speak).

    I like to think that by being selective about which posts I thank, that they carry some weight to them (kinda like when my grandfather actually offered a compliment - he very rarely did that, so when he did, you know you did something truly remarkable).

    Just my $0.02

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    I believe it was Cicero who said: "A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all other virtues."

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    I can understand what the OP is talking about. Just to echo what's been said, Yes, Go ahead and Thank a poster for any information they provide you. They took the time to do so. Should you Thank someone for posting a pic of their new razor or scuttle?
    Why not, They took the time to share it with you, especially if you enjoyed it, or found it useful in some way.

    Personally, It's Thanks enough for me knowing I've helped someone, whether they click it or not...Doesn't bother me. I know for a fact many members help each other behind the scenes, It may be sharpening a blade, sharing info, or giving someone a shaving cream sample, maybe a stone, what have you....That's what this is all about, helping each other.

    Stats can be misleading.....

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    I think its really poor form not to thank someone when you're a poster asking for help and someone replies. You don't even have to use the "thanks" button, just a post with "thanks for the replies" is good. I've seen posters on many different forums ask for help with something then not bother to thank the people that took the time to post for them. It usually irritates me.

    Other then that I'm often confused with the whole thanks etiquette, myself.

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    You can't thank posts from threads you open up from the New Posts page. It took me awhile to figure that out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by markevens View Post
    You can't thank posts from threads you open up from the New Posts page. It took me awhile to figure that out.
    Right click the "thanks" button and select "open in new tab". That will add your thanks to the post.

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