Been married for eleven years now to the same woman and I have one word of advice "cope". Find a way to cope with her madness, all women will appear nuts in a man's eyes but cope with it. Find a way to deal with the madness. Perhaps if she is the vindictive type keep all of the things that you want to remain in a safe. If she throws things at a particular time of the month arange to be on travel those few days.